Since moving
here one of the challenges that has sometimes been addressed to us is to
question whether our firm convictions, and the centrality of importance we have
given the prayer life of the community has limited our potential to be open to
those of different or no faith. It is a question, interestingly enough, which
I have most often heard from others who profess the same Christian faith I am
aspiring to live through this experience.
At the most
simple and practical level, we were invited to move here to establish an
intentional, residential, Christian community, so the grounding of the
community in Christian faith and values was never something which was up for
debate. For me, to be grounded in faith is much less about following a set of
rules or doctrines, and much more about finding space to open ourselves to the
love and guidance of God: so to be a Christian community, the centrality of
prayer had to be an unquestionable reality.
Equally,
with a vocation to live in and serve the city it was clear that our ministry
would bring us into contexts with people of all faiths and none and every
spectrum of belief in between: it is part of the joy, excitement and challenge
of city centre life and was also never in question. We have shared our table
with people of different faiths and none, and our voluntary work has brought us
into contact with those of many beliefs and cultures. In prayer too, we have
been joined by those with theological positions vastly different to one
another, with those of other faiths, and with those unsure about the very
existence of God.
To explore
this challenge a little further, though, it is, I think, a question which draws
on a deeper societal context: one which holds both great promise and great
danger for the church as well as for wider society, and on which it is well
worth pausing to reflect.
I wonder
whether, as the pendulum swings away from past intolerance and strict narrowly
defined codes, we have strayed into a place where we have assumed that
tolerance and understanding means standing for nothing; or perhaps more
accurately not daring to admit to those things which are part of our fundamental
beliefs and identity. Our very positive desire to be welcoming and inclusive
has left us in danger of succumbing to the myth that “anything goes”. Our
belief in universal freedom has left us so desperate to keep our options open
that we have shied away from experiencing the true freedom of making a
commitment. The most dangerous heresies are always those which are the closest
to the truth.
It is true
that as a community we hold strongly to our Christian identity. It is not
something for which I feel the need to apologise. I don’t think holding tightly
to a vocation to pray and be inspired by the love of God and being open and
welcoming of those who do not believe in that same God have ever been mutually
exclusive.
On the
contrary, it is the experience of God’s unconditional love through prayer
together which has given us the courage and confidence to turn outwards.
Finding our hope in prayer doesn’t make us better than others, nor does it mean
we do not have our own questions, struggles, doubts and difficulties; but it
has inspired the vision and vocation to always look outwards beyond our core
community, and be open and welcoming to others. Of course there is always room
for improvement, but I think, both through our volunteering and our
hospitality, it is something we have done reasonably well so far. Perhaps it is
the security of knowing ourselves to be loved just as we are, found in the
experience of God’s unconditional love, which has also allowed us to deepen
relationships with others in all their diversity.
I know that
this challenge, offered undoubtedly in love, grows out of a desire to embrace diversity, and welcome people as they are. It is a legitimate aspiration,
and is, I think, one of the things Jesus did best. But Jesus found the strength
for the ministry which took him out towards others in the firm foundation of a
life of prayer and relationship with the Father. For us too then, like the
Jesus we dare to try and follow, welcoming one another in mutual love never
means forgetting, denying or hiding who we truly are.